Thursday, January 14, 2010

Proud to be an INFP (the Romantic)

I proudly labeled myself as an INFP (in Socionics, the formal name is Intuitive Ethical Introvert) after taking a psychometric test @ Socionics.com
For me, the accuracy is as high as 90%, much more accurate than the Chinese Horoscope or Western Astrology :p

Here's some background info:
INFP (Introversion, iNtuition, Feeling, Perception) is an abbreviation used in the publications of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) to refer to one of the sixteen personality types, also known as Sociotypes in Socionics. The MBTI was developed from the work of prominent psychiatrist Carl G. Jung in his book Psychological Types. Jung proposed a psychological typology based on the theories of cognitive functions that he developed through his clinical observations. From Jung's work others developed psychological typologies. Jungian personality assessments include the MBTI assessment, developed by Isabel Briggs Myers and Katharine Cook Briggs, and the Keirsey Temperament Sorter, developed by David Keirsey. Keirsey referred to the INFPs as Healers, one of the four types belonging to the temperament he called the Idealists. Socionics is in fact an alternative theory of Types similar to Myers-Briggs and Keirsey theory of Types, but being the closest to Jung's Psychological Types.
Me: Btw, INFPs account for about 1-5% of the population. Wow, I'm one of the exclusive ones!
So what's Socionics? Socionics Demystified: A New Social Psychology for Understanding Relationships [ABRIDGED] (Paperback)
So what's my Socionics Type? Take the test now!
How to identify Psychological types by their facial features? Read this book!

About INFPs, About Me:
I – Introversion preferred to Extraversion: INFPs tend to be quiet and reserved. They generally prefer interacting with a few close friends rather than a wide circle of acquaintances, and they expend energy in social situations (whereas extraverts gain energy).
N – iNtuition preferred to Sensing: INFPs tend to be more abstract than concrete. They focus their attention on the big picture rather than the details, and on future possibilities rather than immediate realities.
F – Feeling preferred to Thinking: INFPs tend to value personal considerations above objective criteria. When making decisions, they often give more weight to social implications than to logic.
P – Perception preferred to Judgment: INFPs tend to withhold judgment and delay important decisions, preferring to "keep their options open" should circumstances change.
Me: Almost 100% accuracy

INFPs – with well developed Extraverted iNtuition – can perceive the world objectively and quickly, with a great deal of insight into people's characters. They will quickly and thoroughly understand where a person is coming from by assessing their motives and feelings. These well-developed INFP individuals make outstanding psychologists (such as Isabel Briggs Myers herself) and counselors. They might also be great fiction writers, because they're able to develop very complex, real characters.
Me: I always make an effort to perceive things objectively. But under great stress, I may obsess about details that are unimportant to the big picture of things. And yeah, I'm interested in psychology topics like Multiple Personalities (now known as Dissociative identity disorder or DID in short) and one of my favorite book is First Person Plural: My Life As a Multiple by Dr. Cameron West. It’s a page-turning classic!

The INFP who augments their strong, internal value system (Introverted Feeling) with a well-developed intuitive way of perceiving the world (Extraverted iNtuition) can be a powerful force for social change. Their intense values and strong empathy for the underprivileged, combined with a reliable and deeply insightful understanding of the world that we live in, creates an individual with the power to make a difference (such as Mother Teresa - an INFP).
Me: I display tolerance and acceptance dealing with people who might encounter negative judgment from society in general. I can see something positive in everyone. I believe in individuals. If they give themselves the opportunity, I can become a much-needed source of self-esteem and confidence for people who cannot find it on their own. I believe I can nurture a "sick soul" back to health. :)

INFPs do not like conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it. If they must face it, they will always approach it from the perspective of their feelings. In conflict situations, INFPs place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on the way that the conflict makes them feel, and indeed don't really care whether or not they're right. They don't want to feel badly. This trait sometimes makes them appear irrational and illogical in conflict situations. On the other hand, INFPs make very good mediators, and are typically good at solving other people's conflicts, because they intuitively understand people's perspectives and feelings, and genuinely want to help them.
Me: It's true that I'm quite intuitive about people. Because I'm interested in people and their feelings, I try to understand and accept them. Hmm… under stress, I may obsessively brood over a problem repeatedly.

The main driver to the INFP personality is Introverted Feeling, whose purpose is to maintain and honor an intensely personal system of values and morals. If an INFP's personal value system is threatened by external influences, the INFP shuts out the threatening data in order to preserve and honor their value system. This is totally natural, and works well to protect the individual psyche from getting hurt. However, the INFP who exercises this type of self-protection regularly will become more and more unaware of other people's perspectives, and thus more and more isolated from a real understanding of the world that they live in. They will always find justification for their own inappropriate behaviors, and will always find fault with the external world for problems that they have in their lives. It will be difficult for them to maintain close personal relationships because they will have unreasonable expectations, and will be unable to accept blame.
Me: Sad to say, quite true. But because I intuitively understand people's perspectives and feelings, I respect other people's values as well.

The polite, reserved exterior of INFPs can at first make them difficult to get to know. They enjoy conversation, however, taking particular delight in the unusual. When INFPs are in a sociable mood, their humor and charm shine through. Disposed to like people and to avoid conflict, INFPs tend to make pleasant company.
Me: Yeah, I love to talk and think about paranormal, unexplained, strange and mysterious topics like cosmology, astrology, the human brain, psychology, pseudoscience, ghosts...

Devoted to those in their inner circle, INFPs guard the emotional well-being of others, consoling those in distress. Guided by their desire for harmony, INFPs prefer to be flexible unless their ethics are violated. Then, they become passionate advocates for their beliefs. They are often able to sway the opinions of others through tact, diplomacy, and an ability to see varying sides of an issue.
Me: Quite true. As a Libra, peace-loving is my nature.

INFPs are more spiritually aware than most people, and are more in touch with their soul than others. Most INFPs have strong Faith. Those who don't may feel as if they're missing something important. An INFP should nourish their faith.
Me: Talking about faith, I'm agnostic who believe we do not or cannot know if God exists, or maybe an atheist who believes God only exists in one's mind and not in reality. Like Science, and unlike atheist extremists, I am not the enemy of religion, but the enemy of superstition. Have an open mind, don't blind follow other people's faith. Find the faith inside you.

Ten Rules to Live By to Achieve INFP Success
1. Feed Your Strengths! Encourage your natural artistic abilities and creativity. Nourish your spirituality. Give yourself opportunities to help the needy or underprivileged.
2. Face Your Weaknesses! Realize and accept that some traits are strengths and some are weaknesses. Facing and dealing with your weaknesses doesn't mean that you have to change who you are. It means that you want to be the best You possible. By facing your weaknesses, you are honoring your true self, rather than attacking yourself.
3. Express Your Feelings. Don't let unexpressed emotions build up inside of you. If you have strong feelings, sort them out and express them, Don't let them build up inside you to the point where they become unmanageable!
4. Listen to Everything. Try not to dismiss anything immediately. Let everything soak in for awhile, then apply judgment.
5. Smile at Criticism. Remember that people will not always agree with you or understand you, even if they value you greatly. Try to see disagreement and criticism as an opportunity for growth. In fact, that is exactly what it is.
6. Be Aware of Others. Remember that there are 15 other personality types out there who see things differently than you see them. Try to identify other people's types. Try to understand their perspectives.
7. Be Accountable for Yourself. Remember that YOU have more control over your life than any other person has.
8. Be Gentle in Your Expectations. You will always be disappointed with others if you expect too much of them. Being disappointed with another person is the best way to drive them away. Treat others with the same gentleness that you would like to be treated with.
9. Assume the Best. Don't distress yourself by assuming the worst. Remember that a positive attitude often creates positive situations.
10. When in Doubt, Ask Questions! Don't assume that the lack of feedback is the same thing as negative feedback. If you need feedback and don't have any, ask for it.
Source: http://www.personalitypage.com/INFP_per.html